I hate to ask this but...do you tink my husband is racist against his own race?

He has 2 best friends which are Black.One of them has a Caucasian girlfriend and she's always around.I was never introduced to his buddies but yet this girl is always always hanging out with them.He spends more time with them than he does with me.They go to the best clubs,restaurants,beaches,etc.I haven't experienced one quarter of what my husband and his friends experienced.I am totally missing out on life.He also tries to compare us by complimenting her personality,saying she likes to have fun or her and his friend are the perfect match,etc.This has hurt me deeply to be honest.I feel emotionally drained.However,im strong enough not to hate this women and caucasian women in general.Theres no point in being hateful and bitter towards them but I feel deeply hurt...any advice?